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I left your life with a big hole in it… or maybe more than one hole.

But I really haven’t been ducking you.

I haven’t been hiding. I have been going through some mental health issues, family problems, and assorted other messes.

Like a dirty Polar Bear, I have barely been able to lift my head.

But I am sorry I have been such a pain in the ass.

I know, you count on me to keep your spirits up, and you have been feeling like you lost your best friend.

I know, My selfishness stinks.

But please, don’t look at me like that.

Hold your head up high. I am back!

Let’s turn those frowns upside down.

And help each other to put smiles on our faces.

The drive between San Diego and New Mexico, or, in this case, back from New Mexico to San Diego, is not all desert.

You get into lovely forests around Flagstaff, Arizona.



There are fields sprinkled with wildflowers.
That being said, it is mostly desert. A lot of desert.

And in a small town surrounded by desert… I won’t say exactly where… lies this little… uh… anachronism?

It is, sadly, very old-school Route 66 Americana.

I mean, there was a time, when I was a kid, that I would have begged my parents to stop at this place. So it is probably good that we never passed by it.

And are those wigwams, or are they teepees??? We should get our stereotypes sorted out.

I talk about deserts as if all desert is the same, which is far from being true. High desert is way different than sand dunes or chaparral or those cool giant saguaro cacti parts.

Those cliffs in the distance surround Sedona, Arizona. It is remarkably cute town in a very amazing valley of towering mountains.

But enough about deserts… for now.

So yeah, my younger daughter graduated nursing college in New Mexico with honors. Two degrees.

Mollie is a rock star!

I love her so much.

It seems like just the other day and a few million dollars ago, she graduated from regular college.

So I got to drive through three very hot, very dry states.

Notice how I am squinting in all these selfies.

I am not a hot weather person.

But you do what you gotta do, right?



So you enjoy the adventure. Hello, lizard.

And of course you try to make friends along the way.


Seriously, I can’t see a lonely horse standing in a field without seeing if I can pull over and meet them.

My younger daughter, Mollie, and her boyfriend, Ben, by the Rio Grande River, on one of their last days in New Mexico. That is because Mollie has graduated nursing college. In fact, she is interviewing for a job in ten minutes.

But to get to this greenery amidst the scenery, I had to pass through a whole lot of desert.

And trust me, it is hotter than it looks like it might be in these river photos.

Duckies!


But getting there was a two-day drive from San Diego.

Those cliffs are huge… and smooth.

I stopped at the same rest area you have seen before, the one with the weird little caves in the cool sandstone boulder.


I spent some time on the old Route 66.




The desert can be amazing… if you like being hot.

No, that isn’t one of the little sandstone caves, it is a huge sandstone cave in a sandstone mountain.

Nature is cool

When I travel, I meet dogs.

I go out of my way to meet dogs.

I like dogs.



I like dogs more than people. I don’t go to people parks to meet people. I go to dog parks to meet their dogs.


In the Bay Area, people take their dogs… and their dog parks… very seriously.


And because I stayed at my friend’s house for his retirement party, I got to hang out with his dogs for a while.

But I also went to New Mexico, for my daughter’s graduation from nursing college… with two bachelor degrees, just so you know. And I met this half-wild dog on a Native American reservation.

That is a reservation dog. It is not an easy life.

Life is easier for house dogs.


A lot easier.

I did take this photo at my favorite dog park, right down beside the San Francisco Bay shore. Pick up after your dog… but who cleans up after the seagulls??? Did they crap on the sign to support picking up dog poo?

Something to think about, I guess?