Trump needs Muslims for the same reasons that Hitler needed the Jews… Why hate is good for dictators.

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You might think, if you don’t pay much attention to history, that Trump and Hitler just had an irrational hatred for some particular group of people, and then used their power to  act out on this hatred. No, this institutionalized racism is far more sinister and chilling than that, and also much more cynical. Dictators need a group of people to keep rest of the people focused on.

Dictators don’t just rise to power and then start to spread hate and fear. They use that hate and fear to come to power. They need a minority to blame the problems in a society on. It helps establish their base among the ignorant who feel that their problems must be caused by someone else. It draws the haters and bullies and racists to their cause.

The minority the dictator picked as their scapegoats serve many purposes. The sad and frightening truth is that a certain percentage of people who might not be overtly racist are going to accept the idea that there is some subset of their society that is receiving all the blame and being treated differently than they are. They tell themselves that they, personally, aren’t acting out against these people. But they don’t actively try to protest this treatment.  This is partly because it is human nature to think that if someone else’s life is worse than yours, then your life is somehow a little better. It is easy to overlook the slow advance of organized racism in policies when it isn’t happening to you or anyone in your family. And people convince themselves, even when they see people being mistreated, that somehow, those people must deserve this treatment in some degree.

Once the dictator is in power, the victims of this discrimination serve other purposes. A dictator needs to erode civil rights and liberties. An effective way to do this is to wait until there is some sort of terrorist attack, or, like Hitler did with the Reichstag fire, to fake an attack. Even mass protests might be enough. Because the dictator needs to slowly erode the rights of the people, and martial law is a good way to do this. He needs an excuse to diminish the rights of the people while increasing the powers of the army and law enforcement. And since a dictator runs the army and law enforcement, this isn’t that hard to do. He only has to have enough of his chosen people in high rank.

Now combine this with the fact that a dictator has already put his loyal followers in key positions in the government and legal institutions. The people who can change laws, interpret laws, and pass laws, are now working to give the dictator ever greater powers.

The parallels between Trump’s rise to power and that of any number of dictators is astounding and quite obvious to anyone who studies history.

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tRump is finally using his huge brain to fix the whole world… you know… instead of just America…

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Okay, I swear these are the last photos of my daughter’s wedding… until we get the official ones…

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I think that is my favorite photo that I took that day. I caught Jessica’s crinkly-nose smile of true joy… and Jason looks pretty happy too. But who doesn’t love a good swing?

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Oh yeah!

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And that is just her dancing dress!

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A good picture of Jason’s brother, too.

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I hope I can figure out how to get some of the wedding videos on the blog. My toast was a hit, as was the song that I danced with my daughter to, a song I made up and used to sing to her when she was little while she stood on my feet as we danced.

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I cannot adequately tell you what a nice guy Jason is.

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Jessica was a stunning bride.

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My younger daughter, Mollie, is not bad looking either… nor is her boyfriend.

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That is Mollie’s patented: ‘why did somebody hand me a screwdriver, I am only 18?’ face.

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Jessica gave her sister a hard time. She told her it was rude to look better than the bride. Just so you know, Mollie did not try to show up the bride by looking more beautiful…

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But I am pretty sure my mom did… HA! Not bad for someone who is sneaking up on 100-years-old.

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I wish you could have been there. It was a magical day and night. The little light near the center is the full moon.

If you are a new follower, and you are only here because I tagged these photos as ‘fashion’ and ‘love’ and ‘style’ and things like that, you should know that this isn’t a fashion/love/style/wedding blog… oh no… I do weird stuff… so get ready for that.

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You gotta love a wedding with some diversity…

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My older daughter is now married.

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Attended by my younger daughter and her boyfriend…

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And yes, there were straight couples there…

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From all over the world…

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But it was officiated by their gay best friend…

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And the vows took place under a Chuppah…

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My mom had a great time.

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And much dancing was done.

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And I clean up pretty nice.

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My daughter…

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I was a house daddy before it became a thing. The other dads made fun of me. But I was there for her first steps, and all her owies and boo boos. We did art and laughed, and I was there as she grew up.

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And now she is married to a guy that I love almost as much as she does.

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Jason and his brother in a quiet moment before the ceremony.

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It was fancy and glamorous, but homey and comfortable too… wait until the sun goes down…

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Is my mother-in-law still telling her about the birds and the bees?

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My mom, with my sister-in-law. My mom likes that pose. It makes her look like she is singing opera… which she can…

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Jessica and Jason with Beth and Andrew, both their best friends from their college days, where they met. Andrew performed the ceremony.

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The sun set, and more magic happened.

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Also, we had breakfast for dinner… all-you-can-eat waffles, omelettes and biscuits-and-gravy bar. Oh yeah, and donut stacks for dessert.

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I know, this isn’t as exciting for you as it was for us… but…

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But my daughter is now married to an awesome guy.

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And the whole freekin’ weekend was magical.

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And my other daughter is madly in love…

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And so many awesome friends were there… also, I look pretty dang good in a black suit.

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I won’t bore you with every photo of the wedding, but I do have a lot of them. And there are all the pictures taken by other people and the official photographer… so… uh… yeah…

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Wait… is my mother-in-law giving Jessica the birds and bees talk???

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My little girl… and her new husband…

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Jessica and Jason are now married. It was a magical day and an awesome weekend.

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Everything was perfect.

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The sun was shining.

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The flowers were blooming.

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The pants stump was wearing his best belt.

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Much cornhole was played.

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It couldn’t have gone more perfectly.

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Mollie, Jessica’s sister, was a beautiful maid of honor, and her boyfriend, Dashawn, was so much help. They looked so good that this lady…

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… the official wedding photographer, wants to use them as models for photo shoot to advertise her business.

Many more photos to come.

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My older daughter is now married… but I still have pictures of the party the night before…

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I am a little hung over, and my voice is hoarse. The wedding was awesome. But we need to finish up the photos of the big party the night before the wedding. There is my younger daughter, Mollie. Yes, she is holding little Olivia, the girl I babysit and take to the zoo.

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There are Olivia’s parents. Remember, Joey was friends with my wife since elementary school. Remember also that Stacey is pregnant… with twins.

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There is Big Johnny… who was also a friend of my wife’s… and Joey, back in the day, before the three of them went to U C Berkeley, which is how I ended up meeting my wife and them.

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Big Johnny is married to Eva, and there she is, with William, our godson. You have seen many pictures of them on our trips to the Bay Area and here in San Diego too. There is our old friend Mark, too.

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And speaking of old friends, there is Chris, my buddy that I grew up with, and his lovely wife, Teresa. A lot of people came a long way to share this special weekend.

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Once again, I recommend turning any wedding into a whole weekend-long event. People travel to spend time with you, not just see a wedding where everyone is too busy to talk. Then the bride and groom rush off. Not here. We are having another party today at the big house we rented. Everybody who was able has rented houses to share, or gotten hotel rooms. It just keeps going. That is why I am so behind on these pictures. I haven’t even gottn to the wedding yet, and soon people will be showing up here start the festivities all over again.

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Oh, and the giant Jenga game was a hit, as was the cornhole game, all hand-made, oh yeah. Jenga is fun to play drunk, just so you know.

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That picture cracks me up. That is my mom, talking with my mother-in-law. Why does that remind me of my childhood?

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Awwwwwww…

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I have a ton of pictures to download from the wedding, but I have to start drinking again soon, so I don’t know when I will get them up here. I rocked the wedding, in case you wondered. My toast was a hit, as was the daddy-daughter dance, done to a song I made up and used to sing to Jessica when she was little.

Maybe I will post today’s party pictures first, and save the actual wedding for the big finish.

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There is Andrew, Jason and Jessica’s best friend since college days, standing by Jessica… Andrew performed the marriage. He got ordained online so he could do it. He was awesome. That is his boyfriend, Tim, sitting at the table. And there is my little girl, keeping it classy. Just so you know, Jessica doesn’t really drink often… but when she does, she does it right.

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Some pictures…

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These are the last pictures I took around the house we rented for the wedding party to stay in for my daughter’s wedding… which is today… before the huge party we threw last night… which I have many pictures of to share… when I can get to it.

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Yeah, the front door.

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Even the driveway is a floral wonderland.

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Yup.

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And we found a nice little alcove to set up the cornhole game in. I didn’t make that name up… Google it.

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So Jessica, and Jason, the couple that are getting married today, have the same initials. Jessica invented the official wedding logo… which, you may recall from earlier posts, we stuck onto the cornhole boards… that we made ourselves. I stained the wood and put 7 coats of varnish on them.

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Can you say: family heirloom? Also, this is a fun game to play after a few beers.

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My daughter is getting married today… but this post is still all about me… HA!

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I am falling behind on these posts. These pictures are all from yesterday morning, when I made our younger daughter, Mollie, follow me around the rental house and take pictures of me looking… uh… Captain Morganie???

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Since we took these funny pictures, we have had the wedding rehearsal, at my wife’s aunt and uncle’s house where the wedding will take place…

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And then we came back to this house, and had a raging party… of which I have many pictures… that will take us days to get through.

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I don’t know what that one is supposed to be… do rich people spend a lot of time looking at themselves in mirrors???

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But it was a fun way to spend a few minutes.

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What, exactly, is the best pose for this room?

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That is the question.

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I never did figure it out.

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When in doubt… sexy pose!

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Oh, yeah.

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I did the best I could with what I have.

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Ummmm… okay?

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But the swords are still my favorite decorations.

 

 

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