Fly the unfriendly skies…

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My daughter, keepin’ it classy, on her first day as a married woman…

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No, that isn’t her new husband, that is their friend, Andrew, who performed the ceremony… try to keep up. At least we used the fancy, crystal decanter and glass set, that came with the house we rented.

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Once again, I cannot stress enough how awesome it is to extend the wedding day into a whole, weekend-long party. You need time for the afterglow.

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Of course, by the last day, the day after the wedding, exhaustion and alcohol are taking their toll… people get a little weird.

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But I think we all now know why Andrew has such a handsome boyfriend… HA!

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Why is Jessica using her sister’s boyfriend as a couch cushion? Once again, alcohol and exhaustion. Mollie seems amused, as does my brother, Henry.

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Two young couples, madly in love… another wedding in our future? Perhaps.

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But let me recover from this one first. The happy couple is now in Nantucket, after a brief stop in Boston. They are having a good time. Let’s not overthink that.

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Hey, I said I was done posting pictures of the wedding, not the next-day afterglow party…

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Olivia!!!

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My daughter, Mollie, with Olivia!!!

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Olivia’s dad, Joey, on the left, Mollie and Olivia, and my friend Chris, who drove from the Bay Area to San Diego to go to my daughter Jessica’s wedding.

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Stacy, Olivia’s mom… and the twins… HA!

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Not really surprising that my daughter loves kids, and they love her.

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Big Johnny! If you don’t know who he is by now, never mind.

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Goodbye, giant home-made Jenga game, that I sanded with care… and to your friends, the cornhole twins, too.

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And the award for best, single fly-away hair on a new bride goes to…

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My daughter, Jessica.

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Trump needs Muslims for the same reasons that Hitler needed the Jews… Why hate is good for dictators.

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You might think, if you don’t pay much attention to history, that Trump and Hitler just had an irrational hatred for some particular group of people, and then used their power to  act out on this hatred. No, this institutionalized racism is far more sinister and chilling than that, and also much more cynical. Dictators need a group of people to keep rest of the people focused on.

Dictators don’t just rise to power and then start to spread hate and fear. They use that hate and fear to come to power. They need a minority to blame the problems in a society on. It helps establish their base among the ignorant who feel that their problems must be caused by someone else. It draws the haters and bullies and racists to their cause.

The minority the dictator picked as their scapegoats serve many purposes. The sad and frightening truth is that a certain percentage of people who might not be overtly racist are going to accept the idea that there is some subset of their society that is receiving all the blame and being treated differently than they are. They tell themselves that they, personally, aren’t acting out against these people. But they don’t actively try to protest this treatment.  This is partly because it is human nature to think that if someone else’s life is worse than yours, then your life is somehow a little better. It is easy to overlook the slow advance of organized racism in policies when it isn’t happening to you or anyone in your family. And people convince themselves, even when they see people being mistreated, that somehow, those people must deserve this treatment in some degree.

Once the dictator is in power, the victims of this discrimination serve other purposes. A dictator needs to erode civil rights and liberties. An effective way to do this is to wait until there is some sort of terrorist attack, or, like Hitler did with the Reichstag fire, to fake an attack. Even mass protests might be enough. Because the dictator needs to slowly erode the rights of the people, and martial law is a good way to do this. He needs an excuse to diminish the rights of the people while increasing the powers of the army and law enforcement. And since a dictator runs the army and law enforcement, this isn’t that hard to do. He only has to have enough of his chosen people in high rank.

Now combine this with the fact that a dictator has already put his loyal followers in key positions in the government and legal institutions. The people who can change laws, interpret laws, and pass laws, are now working to give the dictator ever greater powers.

The parallels between Trump’s rise to power and that of any number of dictators is astounding and quite obvious to anyone who studies history.

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tRump is finally using his huge brain to fix the whole world… you know… instead of just America…

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Okay, I swear these are the last photos of my daughter’s wedding… until we get the official ones…

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I think that is my favorite photo that I took that day. I caught Jessica’s crinkly-nose smile of true joy… and Jason looks pretty happy too. But who doesn’t love a good swing?

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Oh yeah!

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And that is just her dancing dress!

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A good picture of Jason’s brother, too.

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I hope I can figure out how to get some of the wedding videos on the blog. My toast was a hit, as was the song that I danced with my daughter to, a song I made up and used to sing to her when she was little while she stood on my feet as we danced.

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I cannot adequately tell you what a nice guy Jason is.

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Jessica was a stunning bride.

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My younger daughter, Mollie, is not bad looking either… nor is her boyfriend.

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That is Mollie’s patented: ‘why did somebody hand me a screwdriver, I am only 18?’ face.

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Jessica gave her sister a hard time. She told her it was rude to look better than the bride. Just so you know, Mollie did not try to show up the bride by looking more beautiful…

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But I am pretty sure my mom did… HA! Not bad for someone who is sneaking up on 100-years-old.

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I wish you could have been there. It was a magical day and night. The little light near the center is the full moon.

If you are a new follower, and you are only here because I tagged these photos as ‘fashion’ and ‘love’ and ‘style’ and things like that, you should know that this isn’t a fashion/love/style/wedding blog… oh no… I do weird stuff… so get ready for that.

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You gotta love a wedding with some diversity…

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My older daughter is now married.

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Attended by my younger daughter and her boyfriend…

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And yes, there were straight couples there…

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From all over the world…

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But it was officiated by their gay best friend…

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And the vows took place under a Chuppah…

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My mom had a great time.

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And much dancing was done.

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And I clean up pretty nice.

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My daughter…

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I was a house daddy before it became a thing. The other dads made fun of me. But I was there for her first steps, and all her owies and boo boos. We did art and laughed, and I was there as she grew up.

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And now she is married to a guy that I love almost as much as she does.

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Jason and his brother in a quiet moment before the ceremony.

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It was fancy and glamorous, but homey and comfortable too… wait until the sun goes down…

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Is my mother-in-law still telling her about the birds and the bees?

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My mom, with my sister-in-law. My mom likes that pose. It makes her look like she is singing opera… which she can…

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Jessica and Jason with Beth and Andrew, both their best friends from their college days, where they met. Andrew performed the ceremony.

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The sun set, and more magic happened.

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Also, we had breakfast for dinner… all-you-can-eat waffles, omelettes and biscuits-and-gravy bar. Oh yeah, and donut stacks for dessert.

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I know, this isn’t as exciting for you as it was for us… but…

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But my daughter is now married to an awesome guy.

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And the whole freekin’ weekend was magical.

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And my other daughter is madly in love…

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And so many awesome friends were there… also, I look pretty dang good in a black suit.

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I won’t bore you with every photo of the wedding, but I do have a lot of them. And there are all the pictures taken by other people and the official photographer… so… uh… yeah…

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Wait… is my mother-in-law giving Jessica the birds and bees talk???

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