Ed Hotspur gave me this very nice award…

Awarding the people who live in the moment, The noble who write and capture the best in life, The bold who reminded us what really mattered – Savoring the experience of quality time.

RULES:

Winners re-post this with their acceptance speech. This could be written or video recorded.

Winners have the privilege of awarding the next awardees! The re-post should include a NEW set of people/blogs worthy of the award; and winners notify them the great news.

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I must admit that in my advanced level of cynicism, I have been guilty of looking at these awards as a sort of chain letter that WordPress puts out in the blogosphere just to keep us all busy. That being said, I like this award, because I am just full enough of myself to think that I do sort live in the moment in a very real sense, and sometimes my writing does a fair job of displaying that fact. I guess I could even go so far as to say that living in the moment might be a nice way of saying that I have almost no skill at planning ahead or making those plans come to be, but let’s just ignore that for now.

The other problem is that I have been working on my ‘sharing the love’ series where I have taken it upon myself to try to direct you all to visit the blogs that I read that mean something to me. So now I am not going to put myself in the position of picking just a few of those blogs to pass this award on to. I am going to do something different.

How is that for living in the moment?

I am going to pass this award on to only one person. And that person writes a blog that I do not even follow. I don’t follow her because I can’t follower her. Her blog is too painful, too real, for me to read it every day. I go over there about once a week and hope that I do not end up wanting to kill someone… or myself.

Because she writes about abuse, and surviving abuse. And the thing is that I can’t read about some of the things that people do to children, or to people weaker than themselves, without wanting to track that person down and find a quiet room where I can spend a few quality hours letting them see what it feels like to be victimized by someone bigger than them. The anger and the rage builds up and I start shaking. It isn’t good for me.

But if you have the heart and stomach to read some very powerful words by someone who spends every day not only proving that they are strong enough to move past such a history but also spends every moment giving a place where other people who have been through such horrors can share their feelings and talk and feel safe and supported and not alone, then you should go check out my friend at;

http://behindthemaskofabuse.com/

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41 Responses to Ed Hotspur gave me this very nice award…

  1. Many congratulations, PMAO, and thanks so much for the heads up on Behind The Mask Of Abuse. I will stop in, though I may be too vulnerable at times to read it thoroughly. THe example you offer of living in the moment is vital, and a lesson I still need to learn. Thanks!

  2. Trent Lewin's avatar Trent Lewin says:

    You’re a good man, my friend.

  3. and now tears, thank you.

  4. Thank you so much, I’m touched and had no idea it caused you such pain. I have to admit you made me laugh all the way through this…I could give you some names and the general area they live in if you have a road trip in mind…lol

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